OK, That's fair, D. I appreciate your help and honesty. I will need about 20 minutes for my wife to delete my gmail from her phone, as she is getting some help. As per your instructions, I don't want to log on yet until I'm sure my gmail is out of her phone, so I need to wait a little bit. How do I reach you to let you know when I have completed the steps you advised?
OK, I found the "contacts' as you directed me to, and the link you sent me told me to click "contacts" which I did, then it said, "restore contacts"...but I cannot find that prompt or link. Thank you for your patience. I think we are getting close!!
You should be able to go into
accounts & sync
sync from there,
The other option is to log into your mytmobile.com account and click contacts under mobile life over on the right then click "click here to manage" then after it loads the interface you will see a sync now option.