my girl friend filed a restraining order against me yesterday in orange county. It was seen by the judge the same day. I have never touched her, went to her home, her work nothing. She blocked my calls and e-mail months ago. when she does I do not have anyway to contact her and I do not try. She has done this for years, She unblocks me, calls and wants to try, then gets mad and hangs up on me and re-blocks me. She recently has started cheating and I found out but she wont admit and she keeps playing games with me because she know I love her and I have a very soft heart, I simply ask her to give me the truth because I know she is cheating, and she dances around the truth knowing full well that it is killing me. I have told her repeatable that I just want the truth so I can have cloture. I am so distrait I get sick. I have concern and she knows it. I ask her for mercy and she keeps blocking, unblocking. She has been on depression medicine for years and recently went to her Dr. and got new and stronger meds. She a completely different person and it scares me. She filed a false report 3-years ago claiming I beat her , when the police came she admitted I have never touched her and she was mad. They never even took me in. This is still on file. I have sent her very nasty e-mails and texts because she allows them by unblocking me. If she blocked and never unblocked me, I woild never have a chamce to communicate with her at all and she knows it. I believe she is just trying to heurt me and cause me pain becsue she knows I am hoplessly in love with her and abything she does hurts me, She just admitte after 8-years that she cheated on me and has been lying about it ever sense. We have fought about this for 8-yeras because my gut told me she did, but she swore for 8=years she didn't. Now she admits it. 2-days alter she tells me she is seeing someone and unblocks her phone to engage me and it drives me insane.Again I have sent her mean and sometime in-direct threating texts, but always make it very clear that I love her and only want the truth so I can leave with my closure and not have this eat me up forever.
JA: Because laws vary from place to place, can you tell me what state this is in?
Customer: What should I do
JA: Has anything been filed or reported?
Customer: Orange county, ca
JA: Anything else you want the lawyer to know before I connect you?
Customer: I think she filed out an application for a restraining order at a domestic violence
support center. She must have shown some kind of proof that she felt she was in danger because that is the requirement to have it see