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An annulment is possible in NC for the following reasons: Underage; previously undissolved marriage; impotent; lack of consent due to lack of will or understanding; belief that female is pregnant. (Source: NC Code 50-11.1; 51-1.2, 2, 3.)
An annulment in Alabama is possible for the following reasons: Bigamy; incest; under age of sixteen. (Source: Code of Alabama 13A-13-1: Bigamy; Code of Alabama 30-1-3, et seq.)
Unless any of the following applies, simply not living together is not enough to get an annulment, although you can file for divorce.
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