I am a member of the State Bar of California, the Bar of the U.S. District Court for the Central District of California (San Luis Obispo, Santa Barbara, Ventura, Los Angeles, Orange, San Bernardino, Riverside Counties), and the California and National Associations of Realtors. I also have comprehensive knowledge of California family law.
You seem quite knowledgeable about civil procedure. Most attorneys don't even know what an "elisor" is. That said, if you serve a request for orders (RFO: FL-300 form) for orders related to your remaining legal matters and in the RFO you ask that the court instruct the clerk to sign the relevant documents for your ex-spouse, given that s/he cannot be located, the judge will grant the request, and you'll be done with the matter -- assuming of course that everything else is in proper order when you appear at the hearing on the RFO.
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