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No, unfortunately it isn't. Nothing happens "automatically".
You could file for an annulment based on fraud and, while it is possible, it will be very hard to convince a judge to grant an annulment nineteen years later.
The law is about the same in all states but I'm going to assume you will file in CT and the law on that is covered by Conn. Gen. Stat. § 46b-40(b) (2015). You will want your lawyer to research the lw all the way back to 1997 because you can assume the court is going to ask about how the law has changed over the years but it likely hasn't changed much.
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