Thank you for using Just Answer.At this point, based on the facts, you're in a position where you can't really do anything. The tape was made with the consent of both parties. A court cannot make him stop doing something that he hasn't done and may not do (and if he has common sense, won't do). If he does post it online, immediately contact the sites and ask them to have it removed. You would then have a claim against your ex for invasion of privacy, and grounds to seek an injunction (court order) to prevent him posting it again elsewhere. In some jurisdictions, it could possibly even be considered criminal harassment
if he posts it all over social media. Now, if he threatens to post it unless you do something for him (e.g., give him money, buy him a new car, whatever), then you're talking about extortion
, which is a criminal offense, and for that, you'd want to file a police report against him.If you need clarification or additional information, please REPLY and I'm happy to assist further. Otherwise, kindly remember to leave a positive rating before signing out by clicking on the stars/happy faces, so that I am credited for my time this evening. Thank you.