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Is the woman still mentally sharp enough to make her own decisions regarding her care?
Are you her medical POA or financial POA?
Does she actually need hospital care?
Ok, then if she is still mentally competent, it is up to her to put her foot down and tell them that she doesn't want the therapy. Your POA gives you the power to make medical care decisions for her if she is unable to make them herself. But if she is deciding to go and to the therapy, then that is ultimately her decision. Your POA doesn't override her rights, it shares them but you can't override her decisions at this point.
So with all that said, she is the one who has to decide what care she wants for herself and the obligation is on her to not do any treatments or therapy she doesn't want to. You can tell them that you don't want X, Y and Z for her, but if they come and she agrees to go do them, then her decision controls as long as she is mentally competent..
You are very welcome. Glad to help. And just tell her that when she doesn't feel like doing something, she is free to tell them "No", as she has earned that right...