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If you have a 30-day Order, this means that there will be a hearing after the expiration of the 30 days to determine whether the Order should be extended. So, you have to wait until the next hearing on the case to tell the Court why the Order must not be extended.
As for custody of the children, you can file Emergency Motion for Custody because the father is an unfit parent: smoking and not taking care of the children. You can obtain blank Motion form at the Courthouse in the Clerk's Office.
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