I have broke off the relationship with my boyfriend six years ago. He was incarcerated twice after the break-up. When he went to jail the first time, he was in the process of loosing his house. He got lucky and sold it before he went away. I took some of his belongings and put them in my shed, six years later I still have his things. He pretty much got free storage, and when he wanted something he would call and ask me to get it for him. well he texted me Friday 10-11-2013, wanting something and I didn't answer or reply. That made him mad so now he says he's taking me to court. I've went on with my life, but he hasn't, he still tries to control me. I think if he wants something he should come and get it and not bother me. He uses the excuse he doesn't have a car, too many DUI'S. So am I in trouble for not calling him back and for not jumping in the car and obeying his order. Thank you for your time Lorrain X. Xxxxxxx
There was nothing in writing,it happened pretty quick. He was already in jail I got stuck moving everythimg out of the house.
Thank you so much, I was making myself sick thinking about this all day at work. I thought about the statute of limitations,I was thinking 5 years. Thanks again.
since he was telling everyone I wouldn't give him his things, I put them out on a pallet and covered it. A friend of his told him he needed to get his stuff. He won't come and get it cause I won't talk to him. He's taking me to court November 4, (why).I called the police to see if they could get him to come and get the stuff. Officer told me I needed to talk to a lawyer, and see how long his stuff needed to be out in my yard before the law could do anything.
L, Have you actually been served with a lawsuit? If so, what does his pleading state?
The Sheriff Dept. was here earlier, but I didn't answer the door cause I didn't know who it was. If I don't see a car I don't answer the door, he was parked at the wrong house. So they'll probably be back tomorrow or come to my work.
Ely, Ralph kept telling people that I won't give him his things. So Sunday Nov. 20 I put his things out on a pallet and put plastic over it. I contacted a friend of his to forward the message for Ralph to come and get his things. Well this is Tuesday Nov. 22 and his things are still in my yard. I called the police to see if they could get him to come and get his things. The officer told me they can't give out legal imfo. and for me to talk to a lawyer and see how long his things have to be in my yard before the law could take any action. I did text Ralph telling him to get his things before they disappear. He said for me to talk to him and I said no. He text me back you won't talk to me I'll see you in court (why). I haven't done anything wrong, his things are waiting to be picked up.
The Sheriff Dept. was here earlier, but I didn't answer the door. I didn't see a car so I didn't know who it was, plus he was parked at the wrong house. I don't answer if I don't see a car and when it's dark. They'll probably come back tomorrow or come to my work.
He keeps saying or texting, you call or the 4th
Ralph dismissed the case, I thought, but he went back to the court clerk and reopened it. He daid there is a stapler missing and other things, I did find the stapler, but that's it. I have
nothing else of his, plus why should I have to do take it to him.
Is this him still trying to control me?
Yes, When I came home Thursday it was hanging on my door.
It's for small claims court, This is what he wrote:I've tried to call and text Lorrain to get m,y antique bed and tools from her shed. She won't answer her phone or reply to text. I'm not mad at her, I just want whats mine. I want to do this legally and not ger into trouble myself. Maybe some items in house too. he estimated his things at $500. Court date is November 4 at 10:30 a.m.
Thank you for your help, I just want this done and over with.
It's affecting my work, I broke down at work twice already.
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