Thank you so much for your answer. We were married under a year... it will be a year this month actually. There is nothing for him to contest, that I can think of.. no children involved. No joint assets. No joint bank accounts.. nothing. To him, this was a marriage of financial convenience.. nothing more. The last thing I want is to keep him on my insurance and ultimately end up paying for his back surgery.. .which is what he's trying to accomplish, so I'd prefer to remove him as soon as humanly possible. Can I take your advice and show it to my HR department and hope that it will suffice in allowing me to drop him today. To my knowledge, nothing has been filed yet. But, he is having his mother find a lawyer and she is taking care of the divorce... which I find to be completely inappropriate and weird... but that's neither here nor there. And, I agree that filing a legal separation is redundant if he's divorcing me anyway. I am willing to take a chance that he will contest the divorce if I remove him from my policy. I feel he is trying to be sneaky and I want him removed from my life entirely... this is the last piece of that puzzle for me. I've already relocated and I've already gotten all of my belongings from the house.. which belongs to him. I don't want anything more from this man. He physically and emotionally abused me and I'm officially done with the marriage. I have a broken thumb and have yet to press charges because I wanted all of my things delivered intact... which they have been. Now.. with all this new information, what in your opinion, should be my next move? Thanks so much, Ely!
You're very welcome. Thanks for the hypothetical guidance!
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