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Sadly, if the estate is stating they disposed of the items or the father disposed of your items, you need to make a demand for monetary compensation from the PR and if they refuse to compensate you for your personal property, then you have one other recourse. If the PR refuses you monetary compensation for disposing of your property, your final recourse is filing a civil lawsuit against the estate for the loss of your property and seek a money judgment for the value of your property. You sue the estate and you have the PR of the estate served with the suit and bring them into court.
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