Dad (93) broke leg, had metal post put in, got pneumonia. My sister was there in Fl within 1 hour of him. Once the health insurance
ran out he would have to go back home, or to a nursing home, or a hospice. My sister found out I could not come down to see him before he died. The next day he died (13th) . He was on IV and had a DNR and no incubate. The will is clear as can be, although all I have is an e-mail saying so, not a copy of the will. She wrote the will says we both get 1/2 his estate when he died.
The question is does she have the power to change what I get by way of using the bank accounts? What is an acceptable hourly charge for her time to tie up loose ends? How do I go about getting the copies of the will? How long does she have to execute the will?
She enjoys fighting, I do not. However, she has already started. My only ammunition is to disagree with her plans to sell the condo. If I pay half the condo fees and 1/2 the yearly tax, can she force the sale? Thank you, XXXXX XXXXX not sure if these are my only questions period. Can I ask more in the future, does it cost each time? Sincerely, XXXXX XXXXX PS can she read a letter I sent to Dad where I had written confidential all over it?