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If I have a child outside the marriage would that be consider

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If I have a child outside the marriage would that be consider a clause of infidelity? Even thou I file a legal separation letter
Submitted: 3 years ago.
Category: Legal
Expert:  Loren replied 3 years ago.
Thank you for using JustAnswer. I am JudgeLaw and I will do whatever I can to answer your question and provide excellent service.

Before we begin, a bit more detail would be helpful please.

Which state?

How is the infidelity relevant to your situation?

Thank you.

Customer: replied 3 years ago.
I've been married for 13 years, however things hasnt worked out good the last 7 years. I've seen someone for the last 3 months, and now It looks like she wants a baby. I have not problem with that, but would that be consider a clause of infidelity? Even thou last week I submitted a legal separation letter! I live in nj ty
Expert:  Loren replied 3 years ago.
Thank you for the additional information.

I am sorry to hear of your dilemma. I realize how frustrating this is for you, but I believe I have information which you will find helpful.

Yes, having a child, even while separated from your current spouse, is prima facie evidence of infidelity. You would need to wait until a final decree of divorce is issued by the court.

I am sorry. I realize this is not the answer you were hoping for. As a professional, however, I am sometimes placed in the position of having to deliver news which is not favorable to a customer's position, but accurately reflects their position under the law. I hate it, but it happens and I ask that you not penalize me for having to deliver less than favorable news.

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Thank you.

Expert:  Loren replied 3 years ago.

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