Hello Christie --
I am sorry to hear about this situation. Are you seeking information on how to bring your ex back into court in order to get a child support review and increase?
Hello again Christie --
This is a very difficult situation to be in. You see, you can take the matter into family court where they will want you to go to mediation and come to a written agreement between yourselves -- and then that can be enforced by a paycheck garnishment every week (and they will attach bank accounts and any tax returns if he does not pay the child support). However, because he is working in a cash in hand job where you will have a hard time proving what he really earns -- and the child support is based completely upon what each party presents to the court as their documented earnings -- you may not get more money than you are actually getting now if you took the matter to court. (Many custodial parents in your situation will actually hire a private investigator to dig up some evidence of the non custodial parents working and how much they actually earn every week/month before they bring the non custodial parent into court for an increase in the child support payments). Overall, my suggestion is that you DO sign the matter up in family court because any increase that you receive is NOT retroactive back to when your daughter was younger -- the clock starts ticking only from the date that you file the application for a modification in child support benefits with the courts. You can make this application to the local county family court yourself -- it is not very complicated -- you simply get the forms either from the clerk of courts office at the county court where you are residing with your daughter or you can get the child support modification application forms online at the CA courts website. The forms are not very difficult to complete, but if you need assistance, there is an employee of every court in CA called a Family Court Facilitator -- this employees job is to do nothing but assist people like yourself who are completing the paperwork and bringing in a family law case without an attorney -- they can help you from the start to the finish -- and you can get the name and contact information from the clerk of courts office at your local family court (when you go to either pick up or file your child support paperwork, you just have to ask the clerk WHO is the Family Law Facilitator for this court and how can I contact them? And you will be given all of the correct information). Here is a link to the CA courts family court /. law website where you can open and print the child support forms --
http://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-support.htm THere is also a lot of information at that website regarding how the process works and even the family law facilitator program.
I hope that helps. I wish I could offer you an immediate solution to your problems. You might want to contact the family law facilitator in your county first before filing any child support paperwork to determine if there is a way to make sure that all of your ex's income is reported on the court forms and how to maximize the situation to get an increase of what is being paid (and to make sure it comes on time).
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