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It is never a good idea to revoke a Restraining Order. If you think back to the reason you requested a Restraining Order against your ex-boyfriend, you will remember that you were in fear of bodily injury and, obviously, the Judge felt that way also and that is why the Judge signed the Restraining Order.
If you revoke the Restraining Order, your ex-boyfriend will not be afraid to threaten you again because there will no longer be a Restraining Order to keep his temper and his anger in check. You will not be able to go back into Court and ask the Judge to reinstate the Restraining Order. If you revoke it, trust me, you will regret it, I have seen many women live to regret that decision. But, in the end, the final decision is yours and you must do what your feel comfortable doing,
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Does the letter I signed with his attorney to revoke cause me any legal reprocussion or will I be locked out again from the house, I have legal residency here although I am not on the lease. My ex caused property damage breaking in yesterdsy, I am terrified.
If you are not on the lease, you will probably be locked out, regardless of any written agreement your ex-boyfriend might have signed. He most likely signed the Agreement just to have you drop the Restraining Order. You stated it yourself, you are terrified of what your ex-boyfriend is capable of doing. In my experience, the victim who revokes the Restraining Order ultimately regrets that decision, but finds out only when it is too late and, as I said in my previous Answer, you cannot go back into Court and tell the Judge you changed your mind again. The Judge will tell you that he thinks you are playing games and using the Court's time to play these games. Listen to how terrified you are, listen to what the police have advised you to do, and consider what I am telling you here. For your own safety and your own peace of mind, leave the Restraining Order in place. The Judge entered that Restraining Order for your own protection and safety, and the Judge has seen hundreds of these cases and he knows what he is doing,
if he changes the locks Am I legally able to change them back considering my possession are here and I am a legal resident, would it be unreasonable for me to break into the house to get my thingsI could call a locksmith
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