AS OF DIVORCE, 1999, WE HAVE JOINT CUSTODY. 1st SON WAS GIVEN TO ME BECAUSE SHE WAS GOING TO PUT IN BOYS CAMP UNTIL 18 IF WE DIDN'T TAKE HIM. OF COURSE I TOOK HIM. I WAS NOT GOING TO LET THAT HAPPEN. HIS SCHOOL GRADES WENT UP, PLAYES SPORTS IN JR. AND SR. HIGH, (FOOTBALL), AND IS NOE A SARGENT IN MARINE CORP. WITH WIFE AND CHILD. I DON'T THINK WE DID SO BAD. YOUNGEST SON WANTS THE SAME OPPORTUNITY. I THINK THIS IS FAIR. EX IS TRYING TO DICTATE HIS LIFE TO BE WHAT SHE WANTS HIM TO BE,WITHOUT LETTING HIM MAKE UP HIS OWN MIND. I HAVE AGREED WITH ALL HER WIMS AND WISHES UNTIL NOW, NOW ITS TIME FOR ME TO DO WHAT IS BEST FOR MY SON TO PREPARE HIM FOR THE REAL WORLD.
THANK YOU. I REALLY DID NOT THINK THE PROCESS WOULD BE THAT TRAMATICK. AT THIS TIME I GIVE $100./wk IN SUPPORT AND CARRY HIM ON MY INS. I AN 62 YRS. OLD AND AM CONSIDERING RETIREMENT IN NEAR FUTURE. I REALLY WANT TO BE ABLE TO BE AN INFLUENCE IN IN HIS LIFE. BEFORE NOW I WAS NOT ALLOWED. I DID FIHGT THE DIVORCE, BUT ONLY VERBILLY. I HAD NO LEGAL REPRESENTATION BECAUSE AT THE TIME I WAS GOING TO MAKE HER PAY FOR IT ALL IF SHE DID NOT RECONSIDER. OH WELL, IT IS WHAT IT IS. I AM HAPPILY MARRIED ALMOST 12 YRS. NOW TO A WOUNDERFUL LADY, MY BEST FRIEND IN WORLD. EX. IS STILL NOT MARRIED AND STILL NOT (ACCORDING TO HER) NOT SEEING OR EVEN INTERESTED IN ANYONE. GO FIGURE! IF NEED BE, CAN YOU FURTHER HELP ME IN HOPEFULLY NOT THE BIG BATTLE?
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