Thank you for your post. Please allow me to assist you with your concerns.Good grief, I am genuinely sorry that you have to go through this process. To be frank, he if he attacked your property, damaged it, threatened to assault your son, and has taken the vehicle, you may want to seriously consider a restraining order anyway. Such an order will compel him to stay away from you and your family while divorce could be considered. Then, contact USCIS and inform them of this situation. They would likely request that you attempt to find a new sponsor so that you can remain in the US lawfully. Luckily such options do exist.The child is not yours, and unless you adopted her, she is NOT your financial responsibility. You have no duty to cover those expenses. Consider retaining counsel as well to have the attorney figure out the proper marital split (California is a community property state so generally all assets obtained while married are split 50/50 regardless as to who earned them). You haven't been married long enough for him to demand support although he can still do so. But you really need to consider getting him out of your location and getting a restraining order.Good luck
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