I think you should summer (now) in the Berkshires and make a few dollars (from me) while you're here, representing me, just so you don't get bored. I can only wish!
if you get sick of me, just send me over to a different person, ok!
OK, the next thing is, my lawyer wants to have a meeting with me. I am quite sure he is going to tell me that he did not like my attitude yesterday. when I am upset, I cry and can be a bit of a snot.
we have court next week to go before the judge to show him the progress we are making.
at this point, can I please tell you what I have for assets and liabilities, as well as my husband??
we each have car with payments, so that is not an issue.
my children are boy and girl 16 1/2 year old twins.
custody is not an issue. visitation is not an issue! hmmmmmm, that's the only thing he agreed upon! without a bat of the eyelash! I believe I have told you that he has never been a father!
I work minimal hours, most under the table, which I have reported on financial statement
. I can't work a real job at this time, I do not sleep, cannot concentrate on ANYTHING and simply cannot function in a work environment. I WAS employed by the state, part time, as I was a full-time mom as well, and a great one at that!
I resigned from my job with the commonwealth of mass, rather than be fired and lose my pension, because I used a work typewriter to write a nasty letter so someone. no clue on God's green earth that is was extortion
my gross pension is $670 per month.
up until approx 8 months ago, I held the health insurance
, dental insurance
and vision. It came out of my pay until I resigned. thereafter, it came out of my pension. husband started job about 8 months ago and he gets FREE health, dental, vision. after divorce I am NOT eligible for this.
I have all the marital debt, credit cards, about $10,000.00. it is very easy to up that much when husband contributes $00.00 to anything. debt I incurred includes but not limited to any minor items need for house. everything for kids FOR YEARS: haircuts, clothes for season after season after season, co-pays, otc medicine, sports, field trips, school fees, school supplies, extracurricular activities and related fees and uniforms, birthday presents, xmas presents.
he has (seriously) $00.00 debt, because he is sooooo cheap.
he pays child support and child support ONLY. if kids want to go to lunch with him, they have to pay for themselves!
I have worked under social security part time when I was a teenager. I will not get a social security pension. if I do, I imagine it will be less than $100 per month if any. after divorce I will have no health insurance and poverty level income, plus child support, for a few years, which is equivalent to mortgage, $1050.00. I pay all household bills, taxes, water bill, repairs, etc.
my husband will get over $2000.00 social security plus about $900.00 navy pension. social security includes medicare and navy retirement includes insurance
I also did something that I don't think I should have, but I had no alternative. my kids both work. one works in one direction, 8 hours a day for summer, the other works in the opposite direction for the summer, with overlapping hours with the other child. I work in yet another direction with overlapping hours with all. I had 2 u-plan accounts for the kids that I cashed in to buy them a car. each was $8,000.00, one car was $10,000. my son has not picked out a car yet. Also insurance for EACH is $329.67 per month, WHICH THE KIDS and I will be paying.
I live in the house, in a nice neighborhood. there was an attempted break-in about 3 months ago. I have since installed a security system my father and brother paid for $5800.00. also, many items in the house need replacement, some of which my brother did, some of which my brother paid for. some of which still needs to be done: dishwasher was inoperable, countertops warped and not screwed to cabinets, broken drawer in kitchen, linoleum cracked, broken, warped, no trim, molding or baseboards, ceilings all marked up from candles (never painted in 7 years) no thresholds going from room to room, hardwood floors nasty (have to hide with throw rugs) rotted front porch needs replacing, had to buy new lawnmower and weed whacker, porches and deck not painted in 7 years, garage windows missing and boarded up. and that is just skimming the surface. my family will fix all these, can it be evened out, so to speak, by reducing hi
so this is what I need:
. I know in Massachusetts, this is going to be difficult.
2. I want to be named beneficiary
of his life insurance
3. I want 1/2 of his military pension or a monetary equivalent. $500.00 per month. LEAVING ME WITH NO HELP, he was away in the navy for at about 600 days since the kids were born, with his parents in texas and mine in florida
4. I want him to pay half my debt.
5. I want to pay him absolutely $00.00 for that $20,000 he gave me.
6. I want him to pay my legal fees