Dear XXXXX, My name is XXXXX XXXXX my goal is to provide you with Excellent Service,
Just so that I am clear on your facts,
1. Your daughter's PO is the person who called you ?
2. It is your daughter's PO who told you that your PO said you were mentally unstable ?
I called her probation officer, and asked to see my daughter. My daughter P.O. said that would contact my P.O. I waited week or so than called my daughters P.O.
Yes her P.O. said all those things to me on the phone from her office she at that time had not talked to my PO but said she had.
Dear XXXXX, Thank you for your additional information,
If your daughter's PO had said that to a third person and not you, I would have said that you could file a lawsuit against her for defamation of character; however, she said it to you and that does not meet the requirements of a defamation of character action.
There is no question that the PO should not have said that and certainly not lied to you, but unfortunately, not every word and phrase (no matter how hurtful and inappropriate) is actionable.
As for "conduct unbecoming an officer of the court" which you asked about, I am afraid that would not be possible because first, only Attorneys are officers of the Court, a PO is not an officer of the Court; and second, that is a charge reserved for the military service.
In order to assure that this PO does not act this way again, I certainly would report her in writing to her superiors and describe to them how unprofessional it was and how it affected you. This will certainly go on the PO's permanent record and will be reviewed each time the PO might be up for a promotion, or when she looks for another job,
I realize that this is not exactly the Answer you were hoping for and it would have given me great pleasure to give you the Answer you wanted to hear, but I have an ethical obligation to you to give you only correct Answers and information, so I am kindly requesting that you not hold the law applicable to your situation against me,
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