The lawyer who represented me in the divorce failed to inform the court that the respondent was in contempt to court on two counts: 1.he never restored the funds he stole from the joint account as he was ordered per court order. 2. He stopped paying court assigned mortgage for half of the court duration. Also, this lawyer didn't submit to me the results of the financial discovery prior to mediation. I want to get my legal fees back and may be some damages
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Thank you Paul. Understandably, you answer is very general, but the facts are already in the court's file, and the court's orders were not honored as to restore stolen funds back to the joint account. There is nothing in the court file showing that they were restored and not legal actions to notify the court of the contempt either.
That he didn't pay the mortgage during 6 months out of 1 year of the proceedings, I have a legal letter that was sent to me by the collectors after the decree was granted showing when he stopped paying a court ordered mortgage. She would not be able to prove that the financial discovery was submitted to me, since she didn't submit.
I need to know how courts/judges usually take to the facts that I described above from your personal legal knowledge
Thank you. I have been married for 26 years to the same man, who emptied the accounts, removed my name from the joint account to which my own paycheck was arriving, stole the car, investments and went into hiding. I filed for divorce and it was an effort to serve him. He was ordered to reinstate me on accounts and return the funds, pay a mortgage for the family condo for the time of the divorce procedures. I have never been divorced before and in a state of shock. I only moved to US from Canada shortly, I had nobody in this country.
That is why a person hires an experienced divorce lawyer, to follow the courts orders to ensure if all is done as per court orders. I don't need to "instruct" a lawyer paid $350 per hour how to conduct a divorce. I have been through a hostile divorce, I can now tell a person what to do and what to file, a lawyer with 25 years of experience doesn't need instructions of a distraught client on how handle court when it's orders are not obeyed. His duty is to inform the court and let it deal with the offender.
your first advice was of the quality I can get anywhere, it had no value tome at all
your other advices were better, and I will rate them accordingly, as it is my right
Have you ever personally known a lawyer being punished by the judge for something like I described? what is the chance of a "hand washes the hand" vs to see the case for what it is?
Thanks Paul, I don't care about any disciplinary ethics with WSBA, I just want my legal fees back, since I feel that if a court issued an order, the least a lawyer can do for a client to ensure that the order is followed. I my case the situation with getting away with court orders contempt has emboldened the respondent to take bigger risks, first he didn't return the money, after he stopped paying support, but when an order was filed he resumed the support, but stopped paying the mortgage and never resumed even after the divorce, at the end of the divorce, he got so bold that he was GPSing me via a cell phone (we had 2 for one deal ) and for him paying my phone, I paid for his medical insurance via copay to my employer, I had to file a protection order when I found out that he is spying on me. My point is, it is extremely harmful to a Plaintiff and ruins the concept of justice if a lawyer is not doing the duty to protect clients interest
Thanks for a good advice. The ex never resumed paying the mortgage and I found out through the letter from collection law firm after decree. He asked for the condo , but the settlement reflected him taking the condo which was "under the water" but nobody knew that he stopped paying mortgage, I was not on the mortgage only on the title,meaning his default info was not available to me but would to my lawyer. Who new his tendencies but didn't bother
The only way I can use his contempt on mortgage would be to renegotiate the settlement by showing it to re negotiation lawyer/court . He never wanted the divorce to start with, he just wanted to dictate his rules and took the money and car to scare me into obedience It backfired by me filing for divorce which he didn't count on. He wanted the procedure as long as possible after firing his lawyer he was per se and court takes it easy, he would get a shoddy legal advice and I had to pay premium to fight and unruly brut . So, I had a per se manipulator for whose intriques I had to pay through the nose in legal fees .
If I decide to file, may I ask how if could be arranged that I will be paying for the advice again on this site get to you specifically?
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I will send her a Demand Letter first, since asking her in email format didn't do anything, and if she will not return the legal fees, I will take her to court
Do you mean just a regular letter vs demand letter?
I plan on sending it by registered mail with a receiver's signature and a return receipt requested
She has an office full of staff. She is well known, was recommended to me as a "bulldog" by an attorney friend of the professor I work for. I really needed a bulldog, but instead I got a greedy chihuahua :) They all were intimidated by the ex and trying to placate him at my expense instead of taking a firm legal stand. I found my email to her that I was writing that I can't go to Mediation without the discovery results, and still she obtained the results but didn't submit to me prior to mediation. I was exhausted at the end of the divorce and on top he was GPSing me via cell phone. I had a Major depressive episode during the divorce proceeding and I never had depression before and my therapist provided a letter. I really needed a lawyer to represent my interests and the least she could do, at least to ensure that the court's orders are followed. She used the situation to her advantage getting me a worse settlement that I negotiated by myself at enormous bills
Could you please explain to me what kind of witnesses needed to the judge to verify that the court orders were not followed? There is a court order, there are documents showing that the order was not followed. There is nothing in the court proceedings showing that a legal attempt was done on my lawyer's part to force the respondent to follow the order or notify the court about his contempt to the court.
There were explicite court orders and there were documented actions of the respondent showing otherwise and there are no legal actions (documents) or hearings to prove on the part of the lawyer that the lawyer took actions to ensure that the court orders are followed.
One doesn't really have witnesses when one is talking to the lawyer. It is absurd. There is a documented proof that the respondent wrote to me that he stopped paying the mortgage as his part of intimidating me. This email was a part of my case. She didn't follow it up, which was very easy, all she needed to do was to find out the status of mortgage prior to mediation to get a leverage. He would have immediately paid it up to avoid the contempt. Any normal lawyer would use another party contempt to court to the advantage of the client. The only reason not to use it to keep the contempt and bilk the client for more "legal" work. Same with the order to reinstate the funds, he was giving me some checks whatever he felt like giving to me from the joint funds that he stole, without any proper legal supervision of the funds reinstating to the account and locked there till the divorce is final.
She aslo was informed in writing that I needed to see the discovery documents prior to mediation, since mediation will be pointless if I don't know what was discovered. Still, she never submitted the discovery to me. She would have to prove that she did, there is no evidence to that at all. She got me worse settlement than the one I negotiated privately with respondent and enormous bills.
She didn't ensure that he is to notify me about his moving out of state, and now he moved from Seattle to NC without notifying me. If he will stop support, I don't even know where to find him.
There are still re assessment tax dues coming to me for a marital property and they could come for another 5 years which she didn't address in the settlement meaning I am saddled alone with paying them.
She came to mediation not even knowing the conditions of the current settlement, she brought another lawyer without asking me, since she didn't know the case at all and I couldn't even follow the case since she didn't submit the discovery. I was nearly nervous breakdown at that point since I had to seek a protection order on top of the already existing restraining order which he violated by electronically surveying me few days prior to the mediation date.
I do see the difficulties of the case, plus going again a lawyer having no legal training. I hope that she would not want to go to the court, just as I don't really want, who in right mind would? But it is in writing that I instructed her to submit the discovery to me and that it is on the lawyer to go to ensure before going to mediation that all court's orders are followed during the divorce proceedings. She didn't. There was a mediator present at mediation who actually commented how easy the mediation went and how short it was vs the normal mediation process, it went this way because I had no documents on hand to review the prior and my lawyer was not prepared at all, plus I was under a nervous breakdown and all I wanted just to get it over.
No kidding, but it is kind of hard to fight the documented request of client for discovery who stated that it would be pointless to go to mediation unless I reviewed the discovery and still go ahead with a mediation.
It is hard to fight the legal documents from the law firm trying to collect the mortgage due for 6 months of the divorce proceedings. It is hard to fight the fact that I was subjected to harassment of the law firm because I was on the title of the property to which he didn't pay the mortgage.
There is no clause in the settlement covering the retroactive debts during the marriage time and reflecting 5 years post settlement joint responsibility for that. There is no clause that the Respondent to notify me about his moving out of State and current address, while he owes support to me.
From what little I know about the Tort law, res ipsa loquitur.
Can a court be asked that a lawyer paid a fine to the court on top of damages as a part of the petition?
thank you for asking me about the witness. Actually, the Mediator who is very experienced commented at the end how short and easy my mediation was to compare to other mediations. Of course it was, I had no financial documents to review provided to me, my lawyer didn't even know the conditions of the last settlement that was actually in her file, and she didn't work at all on the conditions of the settlement and I was in a vulnerable state mentally and emotionally and trusting her to legally fight for my rights. I can call in the Mediator and I will actually outline in my demand letter the comment. It was also mentioned in the presence of another lawyer, the one she brought in without my permission.
You can call your mediator regarding what she did in the mediation, that would be one witness for you. However, for other aspects of your case, you would need an expert to review them.
Thank you, I will outline in the demand letter that I am going to call in the Mediator who will be an expert witness on bothered mediation process and I will ad all documentation including my written request for the discovery and that I wrote to her that it is pointless for me to go into mediation without me reviewing discovery. I will provide the letters from the law firm dealing with the default mortgage who were harassing me long after the divorce only because I was on the title and she didn't ensure that he paid mortgage while it belonged to both of us. I will add respondent's written statement that he stopped paying mortgage while ordred so by court. I will also provide a letter from my therapist who describes my emotional and mental state during the divorce. I paid the lawyer to represent my best interests by doing an honest legal job.
thanks, will do, but there is no obligation for a lawyer to reply to the Demand letter right? It just will be a part of my case if I go to court to show that an serious attempt to resolve the matter out of court was done on my part and she was given the chance to rectify the damage?
The mediator, who commented on how abnormally short and easy my mediation was after it concluded, to me, my lawyer and my lawyer's associate, and indeed it was, since I had no discovery and hense questions to the respondent and my lawyer didn't work, she didn't even know the conditions of the last settlement should I call her in as a witness by subpoena or she can provide an affidavit?
Who actually pays to witnesses, a person who calls them in or they appear for free on the subpoena She was a part of the mediation she could be called in to testify and not as a expert, I think her testimony would have more weight as a present witness rather than an expert
She did the discovery, but she didn't submit the results for the discovery to me, while there were my explicit written instructions to her ( I have proof of that) that I stated that it would be pointless to go to mediation without me prior reviewing the results of discovery. She didn't submit the results to me and didn't know them either. She brought her associate to mediation, and they didn't even know the latest settlement's conditions. I went into mediation because I was on the verge of the nervous breakdown, respondent was so emboldened that he gets away with court contempt, he was even electronically surveilling me while there was a restraining order, I had to get a protection order just prior to mediation. There was a lot of pressure deliberately exerted on me by him at the time prior to mediation with a lawyer who didn't control the situation, didn't inform the court about contempt, didn't submit to me the financial discovery and didn't work on my behalf at mediation at all
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