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The first thing you need to realize here is that alienation of affection is not recognized by the courts in CT. An action for intentional infliction of emotional distress cannot be maintained where underlying claim for alienation of affection is not actionable and emotional distress is the alleged consequence of same acts causing child to separate from parent. See: Bouchard v. Sundberg, 80 Conn.App. 180, 834 A.2d 744 (Conn. App., 2003).
In fact, the courts in CT do not even recognize Parental Alienation Syndrome. See: Snyder v. Cedar, No. NNH CV01 0454296 (CT, 2006).
Thus, you will have to base your argument on something else, which means comparing the CV of the therapist your ex is suggesting to the CV of the one you are suggesting and argue that your therapist specializes in and has more experience with child custody issues.
You can appeal the choice of therapist as it is a final order in the case should you disagree and you should appeal immediately. Additionally, even if the ex's therapist is chosen, you can still take the children to another expert therapist and then use their testimony to challenge the credibility of your ex's expert.
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