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I am sorry you have been in this situation.
I suggest you tell you BF that you want him to buy you out of the home, or agree to put it up for sale so that you to can go about your way OR you will have no choice but to go to court and Petition to have the court order the sale of the home. The fact that you are on the mortgage should not tie you to his dreaded ways for the rest of your life.
If you have been to domestic violence
support groups, I suggest that you may want to talk to them to see if they have legal on retainer who can assist you in preparing such a Petition as a discount rate.
Other than the BF agreeing to the sale or having the Court Order it, there is no way to get off of the mortgage.
I am not sure what threats you are referring to about your daugher, as I dont see where you set detail in that regard. But please fill me in and I can provide further information in that regard.
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