Thanks! I am not looking to escape responsibility here. I actually intend to pay her becuase it is the right thing to do. My issue is with respect to interest and payment. She insists I am required to pay her the same monthly amount, and at the same interest level, as the lender set up before she paid it off. Is this true?
Again, thank you. You're very helpful. There is NO written agreement between us for anything.
One last question, then I'll leave you alone. What can I do about the overly-frequent (in my opinion) emails and texts (mostly from her new boyfriend). I'd love to make what I used to, but sadly my income isn't quite what it should be for the time being and I'm a single father (not our kids). I don't need to tell you how difficult that can be. When I start paying her, I know as sure as the sun rises that they will continue to email and text me frustratingly frequently unless I make the payments in the amounts they want, including interest. Is there a way to stop those short of legal action?
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