Thank you for your follow up.
Unfortunately, the only way to address such situation, is for you either to file for a divorce or a legal separation, as your husband is correct that your home is considered a marital home and one spouse simply cannot kick the other spouse out without a court order.
Once you file for divorce or legal separation, you will be able to request for the court to equally distribute / divide all of the marital property
, including the house and this way both of you and your husband will be able to go your separate ways and to have your separate living arrangement.
Unfortunately, without a petition for divorce or legal separation, the courts do not get involved in such family disputes.
I would strongly suggest that you do consult and retain an experienced local divorce attorney, in order to have your case evaluated and this local attorney can plan out a legal strategy for your upcoming divorce or legal separation.
I wish you the best of luck!