When you go to court on May 6, 2013 I suggest you will want to have a detailed list of items that are your personal belongings. Be prepared with the list of those items to present to the court in case the RO is made permanent against you.
Now when you go to the hearing if you do not want to have it made permanent against you, I suggest you will want to listen and not talk until the court tells you it is your turn.
I suggest, that you do not want to do anything that says to the court "I am a threat to this person" So in an effort to show the court that you are not a threat, have never been a threat and would not harm her, I suggest you will not want to look at her or make any body language motions that would indicate that.
I suggest that the court will give you an opportunity to talk and show cause
as to why this RO should not be permanent. Regardless of what is said, do not even look at your ex. You will have your turn and when you do speak only to the judge.
Now, if for some reason the court decides that the RO should be imposed, then you will want to present your list and request that you be given a police/sheriff escort to retrieve your personal belongings.
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