I feel compelled to give you the full story so that I know where I stand legally.
On or about the last of July or the beginning of August 2012 this woman I was involved
with in PA. I live in Maryland, came to me to admit she had stayed up all night
reading my emails from the past.... approx. 6 hours reading personal messages, financial records etc,
that she had access to, saying I left my email window open on her computer in her home.
I did not remember accessing my email at her home but was more concerned about the
info she had read etc. She offered to give me her password XXXXX her 2 email accts and facebook .
The next day I did just that only to realize she had deleted everything of any consequence.
I asked her about this, and she said she always deleted everything. Only to find out when
questioning her a month or so later, she admitted telling her daughter about this and is was then
she deleted all her emails, but saying there was nothing there to read. I am thinking , right...
She did however leave one personal email behind, that I copied and pasted for my records for
future reference if needed. The next few months she changed dramatically, with constant
criticism, many initiated arguments by her, and finally the first of Jan. we ended the relationship.
And nasty emails on both sides flew back and forth. When at that time I brought this email
hacking thing up again, which she said she did nothing wrong. I then proceeded out of anger
sent an email to her 2 daughters... the left behind email that was quite revealing but included
only the text of the email but no names or email addresses. After sending that email I
immediately apologized to both daughters in less than a few hours because it was wrong to do.
After that we did not talk for a month and slowly she very gradually made contact , within a
few days she wanted to meet and talk, which surprised me, and I was very suspicious, and had
my radar up. After 10 days , seeing her 4 times, things about her had changed. We then
decided to end the relationship, however at the very end , I brought up this email situation
again, and suddenly she got extremely angry, cursing like a sailor, something she had never
I then started to realize her return was to smooth things over probably worrying about this
email issue, My assumption, not factual. A few nasty emails followed back and forth, then
suddenly I rec'd an email from her saying the following. "it over, do not contact me again"...
I was assuming at that time she had talked to an attorney. That happened on 3/19/2013..have
not heard anything since.
That is the basic story, now I need to know where I stand legally, and what , if anything can