Did the order say that when the oldest turned 18 that the child support was then to be cut in half?
I gave you the answer already...that is the problem...NO
I'm going to opt out and let someone else try and assist you.
Obviously, in my opinion, a failure of my then attorney. There was a rush to do that consent judgment, my ex. having to take a flight that afternoon back to UK
OK, Thx,...I know it;s complicated :)
I guess there isn't someone else around. Perhaps I should forget about my inquiry and go back to bed. Don't charge my $5 OK ?
I apologize that it took so long for someone else to pick up this question, but this is the first time I have seen it and so I would like to offer my answer for you. Unfortunately, because your original order did not state that the child support was to end at the age of 18, the mother of these children is entitled to apply for child support for them until they reach the age of majority in whatever jurisdiction that they are then living in and/or is entitled to be paid the full support while either one of them pursues higher education. In the UK and Ireland, the age of majority for child support purposes is 21 years of age (so long as the child is considered to be living at home with the custodial parent) and it can go as high as 23 years of age if the child is pursuing higher education. While it is permitted to send support directly to the child in the same manner in which you did, your problem here is that you did not receive either an agreement with the mother or a court order permitting you to do this and because you went ahead and did it anyway on your own, the courts in the UK and the US can turn around and not give you any credit at all for the money that you have sent directly to your daughter all of these years. As far as the courts are concerned, the money that you sent was a GIFT to your daughter and does not meet the child support obligation that you otherwise had with the mother of the children.
The only way that you will be able to challenge this is to hire an attorney in Texas and file a motion in your local Texas family court for a modification of child support payments and application to receive credit for monies paid directly to your daughter. Because it is Texas now pursuing you for these matters, they must be heard in the Texas family court. So long as you can prove that these payments were made, the court may reduce the amount you allegedly owe to the mother by some or all of these payments made directly to your daughter (it is completely up to the judge whether or not to make such an order and given the large amount here that you can prove you sent, you may gain some sympathy in these matters from the Texas judge). To find a local family law attorney who specializes in international child support matters, you should contact your local county bar association or the bar association of the nearest large city to you and ask for referrals -- they will give you several names of attorneys that you can speak with and you can go from there. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the ONLY way you will be able to challenge any of this is through the courts - otherwise they will judge the case at the child support department themselves and garnish your wages, bank accounts and anything else they can get their hands on until you pay all of the amount they are claiming that is due to her at this time.
Finally, your daughter is going to be the one who is hurt by this because any money that you were giving to her will now have to go to her mother. You should let your daughter know this -- that the entire situation is the fault of her mother and her mother is the person who is leaving her short for her education. It just stinks that Mom would do this to her but I am married to an Irishman myself (Galway Ireland) and have seen what some Irish women will do for money -- they do not care who they hurt.
Best of luck and again, I am sorry for the delay on this response.
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