I am afraid that under the KY child support laws, the court will not forcibly allocate the payments of child support and will not dictate what the receiving parent does with the money. Child support is for the parent to spend to care for and provide for the child, it is not the child's money or right, it is a right to the custodial parent.
With this said, you have raised a good issue in that he is working and thus can support himself and pay the custodial parent money for his own care. This means you do have some grounds to argue to terminate support and file a motion to emancipate him because he is not in school and is working. Once you do this, then you as his non-custodial parent can set up your own accounts for him and put the money away the way you want it to be put away and you can even give him money directly as you see fit.
However, as long as the money is called child support under the court's order you cannot argue or demand how the custodial parent uses the money I am afraid.
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