I am not totally sure if you got my previous reply or not. So I am sending this again, just in case. I don't know if this is the addtitional detail you require. Please add 'at least I think I did' or 'at least I think this is what happened' where appropriate.
1) For several years now, I have been supporting the young man and his (now) 5-year old son to the tune of $1,300 a month for their living expenses.
2) In addition, I put the young man through trade school to learn how to become a chef, and financed his travel to Singapore, Bangkok and other locations for various competitions, where he usually won second or third place. (Once, in Manila, he won first place.) He always sounded nervous when calling me before the competitions.
3) I put up $6,000 for a restaurant. A business partner put in additional money. The restaurant started. Every night he told me how much it brought in that night. After about 6 months, the restaurant started to break even.
4) I may need to give you additional detail about this part later. The partner embezzles the tax money to the tune of $2,000. My friend gets arrested and spends several nights in jail. In the nick of time, I am able to get together $2,000 to pay the taxes and get him out of jail before he is actually charged with tax evasion. I am in the Philippines when this happens. There are elements that make this suspicious, there are elements that make me believe my young friend. Later, he files a complaint against the business partner. I have the complaint, in Tagalog (of which I speak a little). Again, I may need to go into this episode in greater detail.
5) After this episode, my friend wants to study accounting for one year. I finance his tution to the tune of $300/month. I am satisfied that he is actually going to the school when he is reluctant, out of clear embarrassment, to tell me that he did not get an A on an exam.
6) I send hims $500 for his then-4-year-old son to have an abcessed tooth removed under anaesthesia. The son was too frightened to cooperate with the dentist otherwise. I am 100% confident this happened because I have pictures of him with the gap in his teeth.
7) I suggest he start up another restaurant. I estimate he would need about $25,000 to do this. I tell him I would send him $25,000 when I am able to.
8) Recently, about a year and a half later, I've just started being able to. I've sent him about $17,000 so far for the restaurant t hrough RemitHome, in installments of $2,500 plus in lesser installments. I tell him I will send the rest in smaller installments as I am able to.
9) As part of the fantasy, I pretend that he is a young tough who is forcing me to send him money. I tell him over Yahoo Messenger in sexually-inflected language that he is forcing me to send money because he is my Master and i am his slave.
10) One worry I have is that the authorities might choose to interpret all of this as prostitution. We would have video sex a few days later each time I sent him money. Another is that in our Yahoo Messenger exchanges I unknowingly said something illegal or that implied he had enslaved me for real. And of course a third worry is that maybe he is using the money for some illegal purpose.
Hope you get this reply.