ok so just to be clear.
The law firm I am now dealing with is massive. They have firms all the way through Ca and Nevada at least that I know of. My attorney that I actually hired left his private practice to work for this firm and to teach the newer family law attorney's. This is the tricky part. My main attorney only handled the custody support issues. He pushed me to go after the prenup. I finally said yes. So we proceeded with the process,he went to that trial. Then asked the judge for a break to speak with me. He went back in and said I had changed my mind. That was not the case I was furious as you could imagine that they had just wasted about $40,000. on the prenup and then said it was a bluff.
Then we could not mediate a good protion of the issues so it went to court again. The issue of the prenup still remained a key factor as my pension and artwork we had collected original oils from the late 1800's were also an issue. So a trial attorney from the firm drove down and did that portion and had to be briefed and rebriefed and do depo's and you know the procedure. The first attorney he turned it over to screwed things up so badly that my main attorney had to go into court and tell the judge that he would have to fall on his sword for this one as he was not keeping track, his mother had just passed away. Then he retook over the case. When it was time for the actual trial I was told he did not do trial anymore because it takes too much work and he didn't want to do it anymore. He just tells the other attorneys (this is attorney number three now) what to do and helps them prepare after they have written their briefs.
I was never told that I would be dealing with any other attorney's than the one I retianed and worked with since the first day.
It just so happens that the attorney that actually tried my case is also the one that filed the appeal with the higher court for my pension as that was my only safe guard for a future. I have no right to social security,unemployment any of it because I do not have enough credits. That is why it was put in there.
My original attorney the one that is at fault is no longer my attorney,he even filed a paper with the court saying he was no longer my attorney. So we had already started the appeal process under limited scope before Ken actually stopped consulting with me in person and on the phone and was working with the trial attorney on the side lines. He said it was to save me money. Then for some odd reason he as my family law attorney dumped me. Yet the trial attorney had already been retained for the other major one.
They are in the same firm seperate cities,county's.Because the trial attorney works for the other office than where we lived.
Am I suing the attorney or the firm?
Do I have the right to go after my x's attorney also?
Is the judge at fault for not obtaining an origial copy of the prenup?
I lost over a million dollars becuse of their error in not getting an original copy of the document.
Half the practice,the carmel house, our home,vehicles everything. The children and I left with absolutely nothing except support. No settlement,home just debt.
He is a physician that made over $500k a year how does that work. Now I am paying him back support because he proved that his income dropped to $200k in one year.
The judge ordered me to pay him back $1000. a month as well as pay all medical and dental for 3 children until he is paid back for furniture that I did not even say I wanted along with an equalizing payment. My attorney that I have now (new family law attorney) is also a law professor and has never come across a case so poorly managed. She told me that it is because they heard the word doctor and automatically suspected him of hiding money that was about another $60k to find out he was not. I told them there was no hidden money they just kept on racking up the bills.
I think the key issue here is is the pre nup valid or not. If I say no then I dump the issue regarding the pension. Yet with out it, I would be entitled to it anyway as well as half of the medical practice at time of seperation ,half of the multi million dollar beach house from the time of marriage on,half of our home and vehicles. Between the money lost on attorney fees and the money we lost because he is constantly taking me back to court and I have to travel out of state. Or my attorney would make things go to trial. It was just out of control.
I have a disease called Dystonia it caused major flair ups and I was completely bed ridden when they happen. It is a neuromuscular disease.
The mental and physical stain and stress was tremendous.Then throw in the financial burdon I was thrown into just to find out it was not even a valid document with out my signature on it. I have been and continue to have to fight for everything. I have 91% custody if that gives you any indication of the kind of parent he is. I was given a choice move here to Wa to a remote island in the San Juans or stay their with his new girlfriend then wife. After I signed the bifurcation so they could be married because he wanted to settle( so he claimed) if I would do it. I did and he didn't. We got our move away.
So I am dealing with the same firm under a limited scope for the sole purpose of the pension.With the third attorney that tried the financial end of the trial that lasted 4 days.
Not with the original that filed a withdraw as my council.
So three attorney's from the same firm did not even catch that it did not have my signature on the document.
His did and hoped we would not find out or Roger committed purgery along with his original pre nup attorney. Subsequently also with his new one after the divorce started by providing the document. I know it does not matter, I did not want the divorce . I was told I was getting one 10 days before a scheduled c section.
I just want what I am entitled to.
I want to have a home again to raise my children in and not have to rent.
I want to be out of debt.
I want my life back after the tole it has taken on me and my family with me being gone constantly back and forth to court. The work I did at home to prepare. It has been a total nightmare that won't stop.
Had they caught this in the very beginning it would have been over and done with in a year max. My newborn is now getting ready to turn 5 and I am still dealing with this psycho and his screaming in my face lawyer and their lies.
I think his attorney is at fault also for not checking the document himself to cover his own butt. You would think an attorney would have the wear withall to make sure your client did not get you or himself into trouble with the court. We are talking purgery,fraud,contempt for them all and they did not check. These are the top attorneys in the entire county that we had ,well I had. He still has his.
Where is the justice?
This is why lawyers have such poor reputations and Dr.'s have huge ego's.
When you pay for the best I should have gotten the best not some drug out for years nightmare . Where we are living check to check. While he has three homes and 5 cars and I have the children.
to have found all this out after a year of waiting for things to go through the appelet court and to get the decision back saying I had no signature on the original in Feb. 2012. We started in Nov of 07. Now another year to have this heard in family court.
Can I wait?
should I wait?
If I do go to court and get half the pension based on the document that they are going by am I agreeing that I believe this document to be true?
Should I just drop that and go after the attorneys and get this straightened out before giving them one more dime. although the higher court did order my x to pay all fees for the appeal regarding the pension.
I do not want to end up in a pickle because it looks like I am agreeing with a document that I know is not valid with out a signature.