I tried to hurt myself two years ago. At the time I had been going to a pain managment Doctor and was on a high dose of pain pills leaving by myself and drank a bottle of vodka. I have never done anything like this before I have a very good job and I have had soul custody of my own two children who were not around when this happened because they are both grown and have there own families. I have since done nothing like this realized that I should not be on this high of a dose of pain medication and have gotten off of it all together. I see a doctor once a month my choice and I hold down a very high stress job. I am in a relation ship with a guy who has two children with two different woman one of the has got to know me and knows I'm a good person and I made a very stupid choice with the help of pills and alcohal. She works for the crime labe and allows me to watch her child and the child spend a lot of time in our house hold. the other one stopped the boyfriends visitation but not all together she was allowing her daughter to come over on weekends and holidays and one day out of the week for two hours this wife has stopped letting her daughter come over because we have taken her to court to inforce the full visitation rights because the daughter wants to spend more time with us. One reason for this is because my boyfriend loves his daughter and misses her and the other reason is because dcfs has gotten involved because of the domestic violince that is going on in the exwifes home with her new husband. But the ex is now triing to saqy her daughter isnt safe her because of what I done two years ago. Can she keep her daughter out of our house hold? we do not fight and I made a very bad mistake but have got of the pain pills and dont drink and I would of never done anything like this if I would of been in my right mind at the time. I got the help I needed. Please help with my question. Thank You
Country relating to Question: United States
State (if USA): Florida
We have got a lawyer to fight this.
Hello and thank you for the question. I am sorry to read of this dilemma.
what outcome are you seeking?
We are hoping she cant keep the daughter from us
Who has custody?
because of what I done drunk and high on pain pills
Is there a court proceeding or order?
have you been deemed unfit?
she does but she is in a nast investigation with dcfs the are thinking about removing the children
I was released to myself and got help to get off the pain pills
Generally the agency and a court would look to decide what is in best interest of the child
that is the determining factor
so need to assure them able to do so and care without any problems
self harm is a factor they will consider
I hope that is clear and fast
her husband has domestic vilance charges agianst him and this is going on in front of the children
That is criticial
and normally will bar them from having custody
harm to others is a serious issue
and will more than counter balance in most instances
Thank you that is what I needed to know. My boyfriend is a good man with two wonderful children
I wish you the best
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