Thank you for the question and good morning
In this situation, the police should be alerted of the threat the person is to you
what would normally happen is reciprocal restraining orders extended
and no jail
You should take measures to avoid contact
He works where I have been volunteering for 3 years. I see him there. We put provision in last order so I could still volunteer, but is the fact that he is trying to get me out of state and not dropping the order if I stay legal? So if I break no contact I go to jail, but if he does he does not go to jail?
If you are maintaining the conditions of the order to now, you would not go to jail
If he is harassing or threatening you, an order can be placed on him
if he violates that, he may go to jail
its a 2 step process
and if there are imminent threats to your safety, and you have proof, the police may arrest immediately
He is psychologically torturing me.
thats hard to proove
are you afraid for your safety?
There is no harm in alerting the police
I'm afraid for my mental health.
and creating a record
I would file a complaint then concerning the harassment
I hope that is clear and helpful
The harassment being his threats to get me to move?
The emotional and mental abuse
i see. ok. Thank you. So I just go to police and ask them for paperwork? Seems simple enough.
that is a good first step
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Thank you I"m also going to get an advocate. I like this service. It is very handy. Even so early on Sunday morning. Hope you have some coffee. :) Have a good day.
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