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If you have been escorted from her home, then I suggest you not have any contact with her at all unless you have a witness present and/or a police escort. Of course, if you have not heard from her on this issue and she will not contact you, then you should consider not contacting her any more. But if she does, then some type of witness or escort would be wise.
You will need to see where the meeting is going to be. Perhaps, it is best if you consider to have the meeting at the police department in the Bronx. They will allow you to do that, if you call them and arrange it.