DearCustomer- If your mother is suffering from dementia it would be a good idea to have this fact documented now in case anyone tries to get her to change her will between now and the time of her death. That would give you the necessary evidence to show that she was suffering from dementia prior to the time she changed her will and therefore void any changes or a new will.
I would assume there is a medical record of her dementia even without an evaluation however if an evaluation is done it will solidify your case.
If he refuses to provide the information you will probably have to file a suit in the local court to force an accounting of the trust. Or you can base a suit on the fact that he has breached his fiduciary duty as a power of attorney. In any event, if he refuses to give you what you want then the courts are the only alternative and you will probably need legal assistance to accomplish your objectives.
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