Your wife has equal rights to the marital residence at this point in time. Just as you can invite any guest into the house, so too may she.
Unless this boyfriend has done something to you, threatened you, attacked you, etc., then you cannot get a restraining type order against him.
For this reason, you may wish to lock up valuables. You may also wish to lock up information that could be used in identity theft.
A complete household inventory
is a good idea also. A photographic and written inventory of everything in the house is hugely beneficial. It will ultimately be helpful in establishing what you both have, and that will be useful in dividing property. Further, if this is accomplished before you leave, and if the inventory is dated, then if anything is missing upon your return, you may be able to file a police report against her boyfriend for theft. And, even if the police don't want to get involved, you can also use the disappearance of items in your divorce case, potentially.
Therefore, let her know that you have completed an inventory. Let her know the consequences of anything disappearing. And then lock up that inventory in a safe place to which she has no access (in case she would cover for her boyfriend's theft of items). Your best insurance
is the knowledge that disappearing items will not look good in court (criminal or civil). If she cares about her boyfriend, she will let hiim know that the items in the house must not be taken.
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