You can do several things. If she is making harassing telephone communications, then you can call the police and file a criminal complaint
against her and when the matter goes to court you can ask for the restraining order as part of that proceeding. Also, you can go to the clerk of the court where she lives and speak to the clerk about filing a restraining order and the clerk will give you a form to file and she will be served and you will have a hearing and get to explain the situation to the judge who will then decide whether or not to make the order permanent.
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