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My recommendation: have an attorney send a letter to your former co-worker and your former employer demanding that these statements be retracted immediately and that if they do not retract the statements, you will sue them. That should get everyone's attention. If they do not retract the statements, you sue them for libel and interference with prospective economic advantage.
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