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Try all of the above, yes. It's not "too late", since the judge could if he/she chose, waive the late filling of whatever could be filed now - sure your court appointed atty isn't blowing smoke on this one?
You need to spend some time on yourself here too. He may be gone for a good while and you need to find some peace for yourself in the meantime.
All the best,