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Is the 37K in your name as well as his?
They are dead wrong and are just trying to scare you into paying. I am a NY attorney and the only time a spouse is liable for the debts of the other spouse is for necessaries....food, clothing, etc. not trips with a girlfriend. The other questions are therefore academic.
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1. That is simply the accurate statement of NY law. You can't be held liable for those kinds of expenses unless you were on the card too. I don't know what else I can tell you :-(
2. Your card was only debited once.
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