Welcome to JustAnswer, my name is XXXXX XXXXX I'm here to help get your problem resolved. Here is picture of ASD relay which I agree is a good place to start. Let me know if you have any questions, thanks.
If it was a fuse problem it would not start at all so I do not think that would be worth checking. Here is a connector diagram of ECM to check power/grounds. Let me know if you have questions, thanks.