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ANSWER: You only have one option - to withdraw the I-130 petition as soon as possible. That will stop the marriage based process. You need to do that immediately; if the green card is approved, it will be too late and you will be stuck with your affidavit of support obligations. You do this by writing a letter to the address listed on the I-130 Receipt Notice and providing a copy of the I-130 Receipt Notice.
Yes, she might be able to go through the process on her own through a VAWA self petition based on abuse. But she would actually have to prove that the abuse occurred. That might be hard to do. However there is nothing you can do to stop the USCIS from approving such a self-petition.
If you can get proof of her affair with someone else, and proof that she is blackmailing you in writing or in a voicemail or recording, then you can report her to Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) who will investigate and make a referral to the immigration court based on their finding. Just saying this is what she is planning is not going to be enough for ICE to take action.
That is all you can do in this case.
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