Dear Mr. Senmartin,
No, we didn't file an I-751, I am thinking he got the ten year Green Card because he arrived in the US in 12/2009, we married in 6/2010, since they lost his file and it took more than 3 years after our marriage date to get the interview. But he did get the 10 year green card it expires in 10/2013.
There were many things in our marriage that made me think he may have married me for a green card, but he continued to say it wasn't true. I never felt that he loved me, as in the love I have felt from every other relationship I have had in the past.
Now he is saying he wants to help me financially to get a place, as I hurt my back a year ago and am unable to work and have no income. My son just moved back to CA and is staying with us. Now my Husband pushed me off to my 22 y.o. son, who said he would get a place and help me.
I can't trust my husband to hold up any financial agreements, since it is apparent he has shammed his way through the entire marriage. Things that he did that made me question him were, 99% of the time we didn't sleep in the same bed, he preferred to sleep on the floor on a thin mat. He wanted sex all the time, but it was only about him, three mins and he was done (he said he didn't have much sexual experience before me since it was not socially/religiously acceptable for sex before marriage). Earlier in the year he told me he didn't want to marry me in the Church, because this meant a "forever marriage." There's lots of little stuff like that, no cards, or presents during holidays...I could go on. I mean he has worked and provided when I wasn't working but even after I hurt myself I had workers comp, and I still "pay" for my own things.
I hope this gives you enough info.