Hi. my name is XXXXX XXXXX immigrant, I’m russian.
I have a question. Here is my situation:
I'm married with american citizen woman(russina). I got green card via marriage. Married in Feb 2011. we have kid with wife (6 months) and her boy from previous marriage(19 years old). my wife just said me that she started preparation for divorce. The reason is my mother she says. My mother normally lives back in Russia. i didn't see her almost 3 years and now she was just visiting us this winter for 2 months just to see grand son. my wife made a couple scandals with my mother and because of stress and other factors mother got to hospital because of heart attack. When mother was discharged from hospital doctors said that she can’t travel at least a month. My wife was pushing me and my mother to go back to Russia just after these 4 weeks. I declined her request because I can’t take days off at work when she needs and because I wanted to keep my mother as longer as possible to prevent potential travel risks for mother’s help. I will also travel with my mother back to Russia to setup medical care and others things cause she lives alone in Russia. After I declined my wife’s request to remove my mother from home asap and after I said I need to escort my mom to Russia, my wide said she does not need husband like me and she will be preparing for divorce during y trip to Russia.
I still do not want to divorce and think that my wife just person who ignores facts of reality.

Question: how can avoid divorce? Is there any options for me?
I need it by several reasons: I want to keep my family
I want to care about our common and not common kids – my wife has very low income
And I make 75% of family budget
In case of divorce I believe I will loose green card and physically will have to leave the country.
Is there any legal ways to stop my wife doing divorce? Because she does not listen and does not want to discuss anything anymore.

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State/Country relating to question: Pennsylvania

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