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Anode rods are typically in the top of the tank under a plastic plug/cap in the jacket.
Once you remove the cap you will see a ~1" hex plug
this is the top of the rod
There are three plastic caps on the heater, which one?
could be any one, most of the time it is right in the middle of the top in an electric heater like yours