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You will need to setup an account at DYNDNS.com or similiar. The best and most reliable way to connect is with a static IP address that you get from your broadband provider. Other things to make sure you have checked is your firewall/security settings may be blocking the data and make sure you follow their directions for port forwarding (the have tech tutorials on their site). Also download NetWork Magic. This will help manage your network connections. You can also try nViewer from the Android apps market.