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1. You are correct, insulation should never have a vapor barrier on both sides unless it is sealed air tight and never gets punctured. I'm not sure why that was installed because it will trap moisture.
2. The kraft-faced batt insulation is a better choice but rigid insulation is even better, since water doesn't effect it. Read more below about how and where to insulate and use the thickest batt insulation that will properly fit in the joist cavity, to give you the most R-value. Just don't stick with the 3-1/2".
3. As far as insulation placement, read below.
Crawlspaces are either vented or they are not. The insulation placement is different for each.
I live in a cold winter location, but the procedure will work anywhere, and this is how I basically design them:
If a crawlspace is vented, it is ideal to treat it as an outdoor space (no different than an attic space), and insulate the floor between the crawlspace and living space. If you have heating/ cooling and water pipes running thru the crawlspace then you have a conflict with the cold outside air freezing the pipes and then it must be treated as an indoor space; in this case you would not insulate the floor, but insulate the perimeter of the foundation and not vent it.
Back to a vented crawlspace, I would insulate the floor with batt insulation and then a layer of 2" rigid insulation applied to the bottom of the floor joists with all joints taped and sealed with spray foam. This provides an air and thermal barrier between the crawlspace and the house above. The batt insulation by itself, is only acting as a filter since moisture can still migrate thru it; and it will do this all by itself because humidity in the air is always trying to balance itself out; and it will migrate from crawlspace to house with no problem, without the rigid insulation.
If the crawlspace has soil for the floor and is vented then I would lay one layer, on the soil, of 6 mil polyethylene vapor barrier with all joints overlapped 6-12 inches; no need to tape joints. Run poly up concrete sidewalls, but no need to seal, just secure to hold it in place. If it is not vented, the polyethylene joints need to be taped and sealed to the concrete sidewalls.
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