Hi, I am an American Board Certified Neurologist with vast experience in diagnosing & treating all types of neurological & other medical conditions including the concerns of “hiv” you have mentioned here and I am very glad to help you with your health concerns.
First of all let me reassure you the possibility of hiv is extremely low in you
You had hiv testing done many times and all of them came negative
It is extremely reassuring
While the oraquick test or finger stick hiv testing is not 100% reliable but you had these tests done at different times, and specifically you had testing done few years after the exposure which also came negative, and you actually had two different tests done at that time, and all came negative
All these imply the possibility of hiv is extremely low in you
The type of symptoms you are having (or you have had before) - the recent fungal infection or the lymph node enlargement in the past etc do not automatically point towards hiv, in fact there are so many other conditions that can produce these manifestations so hiv should not be the automatic suspicion
You may try to get one more test, a blood test, and this will help in reassuring you, however considering that you have had many hiv tests, that too done at different times including few years after the exposure too and all came negative so hiv possibility is extremely less likely in you and most likely you have not contracted hiv. You may do one more test (a blood test) but I strongly feel it will come negative based on the information you have provided above.
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