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Even with all the precautions there is still a risk for transmission of genital herpes. However with these precautions your risk is reduced. In a study it was shown that symptomatic, laboratory-confirmed genital herpes occurred in 17 partners (2.3%) of 741 placebo recipients and 4 (0.5%) of 743 partners of those given an anti viral medication.
Regarding testing, you make ask your doctor for an antibody test. This is an accurate test with a high sensitivity and specificity and becomes positive in at least half of people at 2 to 3 weeks, and in 98% of people by 6 weeks. However in some individuals this can take up to 16 weeks for detection of antibodies. So you can have the test done at 6 weeks.