It's not painful to touch.
No medical condition other than the stomach bug I mentioned.
Its inside the entrance to the urethra. Slight visible at the opening but most of the mass is is only visible when you pull the hole open. Can't feel any discomfort at all.
My wife does not have an STD (as far as I know) and yes I has unprotected sex (vaginal and oral)
I was afraid you would say that. I take it the background I gave you (my wife's mouth / tummy bug) makes no difference to this?
Thanks for this excellent service. I have now booked an appointment.
One further question if I may. I have been married for 9 years and I have not had sex of any kind other than with my wife.
My fear there is that she has been unfaithful, has picked the virus up and passed in on to me. Or is it possible one/both of us could have had at all this time without noticing?
It would be a great help to have your advice on this before I have the difficult conversation. (clearly we both need to be tested)