After finding out that he has tried to have sex with other women yes I was upset...but thought about it before I have spoke to him and tried to keep my composer. Have asked him in a good manner (I thought was a good manner) if we could just have sex with other couples not without each other. And on the masterbating I got very upset because I have had other men in my past marrages do this and it makes me feel very unwanted. Then I did loose my cool. After I had cooled off I tried to talk to him and he at the time seemed to understand. But I really am not sure if he does, because he is always on the computer after he gets home from work looking for sex (every day) sometime 4 or 5 times a night.
yes I do, I don't know how to talk to him about this without him getting upset about it. I care a lot about him and I don't want to loss him. He is a very good man. Is there any way I can talk to him about not doing this so much without telling him he needs help?
He didn't say anything. I had asked him if he wanted to know why it upset me so. I told him the reason why it upset me, that it made me feel unwanted, and his reply was he does want me. But he still is going on sites to find sex
no he didn't.
I have already told him that if we can't do this together then I don't want to do it at all. Yes I have told him I would leave him and he flipped out on me.
he started yelling he was sick of me telling him I was going to leave him. Yes this is not the first time I've told him I was going to leave. This is not the first time I've talked to him about his. He didn't hit me of nothing like that. I wouldn't put up with him hitting me.
I have just a few minutes left her before he gets home tonight.
I would like to know how I can handle this with out us arguing and me telling him I'm leaving. because I don't want to do that. I really love him, I just can't handle the continuous sex obsession everyday. Once in a while is ok with me, I have told him this. I would like to know how to tell him without all the arguing & him going astray to other women behind my back. Because he would do that so he could have sex with other women. I have no problem with us swinging with other couple but not all the time. How can I tell him this?